Causes of self-harm

Reading time: 2 min

There is no single explanation for why people self-harm. NSSI is generally seen as a way of coping that can serve different purposes: 

People talking and a negative symbol

Social function. Self-harm may also be used to communicate distress to others or influence their behaviour in some way. This can include the so-called attention-seeking acts, exploratory play, imitation of peers, or even attempts to belong to a group. Social media and early access to smartphones have contributed to a rise in self-harm among younger adolescents. 

Person in front of a punching bag

Emotional regulation. This is the most common function and often occurs automatically. Self-harm can create a sense of relief by helping to regulate overwhelming emotions such as anger, anxiety or frustration; therefore, it may sometimes act as a 'quick solution' to stop feeling distressed. However, relief is temporary, and when unpleasant feelings return, the behaviour may be repeated.  

Positive sign

The need to “feel something”. Some people self-harm when feeling dissociation or emptiness. This often leads to feelings of guilt and shame afterwards, creating a cycle that is hard to break without professional support.  

NSSI is a complex phenomenon because, although it presents the same outcome and behavioural expression (self-injury), its etiology is highly varied. Most people have more than one reason for self-harming, and these may change over time. 

Self-harm risk factors

Self-harming occurs most frequently among:
Symbol of female sexuality

Women.

Teenager girl and boy

Adolescents.

Rainbow and LGTBIQ+ flag

LGBTIQ + communities (lesbians, gays, bisexuals, transsexuals, intersexers, queer and any other type of sexual orientation or gender identity).

Three sad people and one with a cut

People with friends or family members who self-harm.

Little girl with her hands covering her face and crying

People who have experienced childhood abuse.

Group of people in which one is shouting at someone

People who have experienced bullying

Person smoking next to another person

People who consume alcohol or drugs.

Two different sides of the face representing behavioural disturbances or mood swings

People with psychiatric disorders such as borderline personality disorder, eating disorders, or post-traumatic stress disorder.

Información general de Mental Health in Children and Adolescents

Consulta toda la información relacionada con Mental Health in Children and Adolescents

Read more

Substantiated information by:

Iria Méndez

Published: 30 October 2019
Updated: 22 September 2025

Subscribe

Receive the latest updates related to this content.

Thank you for subscribing!

If this is the first time you subscribe you will receive a confirmation email, check your inbox

An error occurred and we were unable to send your data, please try again later.